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Safe, effective and easy to use!<\/b> <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/mindspa\" rel=\"noopener\"><u>Download it here<\/u><\/a><\/small><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Nuovo-progetto-7.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-10723\" width=\"260\" height=\"174\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Nuovo-progetto-7.jpg 980w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Nuovo-progetto-7-600x404.jpg 600w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Nuovo-progetto-7-64x43.jpg 64w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Nuovo-progetto-7-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Nuovo-progetto-7-768x517.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Nuovo-progetto-7-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Nuovo-progetto-7-930x620.jpg 930w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/04\/Nuovo-progetto-7-500x337.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 260px) 100vw, 260px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>We talk a lot about boundaries not because it&#8217;s fashionable. Boundaries is what keeps other people from invading where they weren&#8217;t invited. They preserve our integrity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Here is a selection of phrases that you can use if someone is trying to step onto your territory without an invitation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you receive unsolicited advice:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thanks, but I don&#8217;t need advice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thanks, but I think differently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I need to figure this out myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>You can share your opinion, but I will make the decision myself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I know better what I need.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I like how I look and will decide for myself what suits me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This is my choice. We will not discuss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When someone is asking personal questions:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sorry, I don&#8217;t want to talk about it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This topic is very personal for me, I do not want to discuss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&#8217;s not touch this topic, it makes me feel uncomfortable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It does not concern you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When you need to say \u201cno\u201d (they offer you something you don&#8217;t need or ask you for something):<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sorry, but I must say no.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m sorry, I can&#8217;t do this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t suit me\/is not interesting to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, I won&#8217;t be able to do it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sorry, I have other plans.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I need time to consider this. I&#8217;ll give you an answer a little later.<\/p>\n\n\n<div align=\"center\">\n<div class=\"alt-notice\" align=\"center\"><b><font color=\"white\">UNLOCKING MENTAL WELLBEING<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Self-therapy can be an essential tool for personal growth and self-improvement.<br \/>Browse through our <a href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/courses\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><u>courses<\/u><\/a> and see the positive changes they can bring to your life.<\/p>\n<p>You are not sure where to begin?<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<p class=\"product woocommerce add_to_cart_inline example-cart-button\" style=\"border: 0px;\"><a class=\"button product_type_simple add_to_cart_button ajax_add_to_cart\" href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/psy-tests\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">TAKE A FREE TEST<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"buttons\" style=\"border: 0px;\"><a class=\"button product_type_simple add_to_cart_button ajax_add_to_cart\" href=\"https:\/\/mindspa.typeform.com\/to\/za9nGe8T\" rel=\"nofollow\"><small><u>or get a free consultation<\/u><\/small><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>It&#8217;s doesn\u2019t fit with my schedule.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have other priorities now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unfortunately, I can&#8217;t help you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When your boundaries are shamelessly violated:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I am will not continue the conversation in this way\/tone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t like the way you say it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I hate the way you say it. I must end this conversation now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I&#8217;m not going to discuss it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This only concerns me and my wife\/husband.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I will not tolerate this attitude.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There is nothing to discuss.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>When a person is offensively &#171;joking&#187;:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Your joke is inappropriate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This topic is no joke to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>What you say hurts me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I don&#8217;t like jokes about my appearance, please don&#8217;t do that.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/br><div align=\"center\"><p style=\"color:#3F89C4\"><b>Follow us on social media \ud83d\udc47<\/b><\/p><\/div><div class=\"elfsight-app-c98e7929-70fd-422f-848b-3e0a5f4c858b\" data-elfsight-app-lazy><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We talk a lot about boundaries not because it&#8217;s fashionable. Boundaries is what keeps other people from invading where they weren&#8217;t invited. They preserve our integrity. 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