{"id":5193,"date":"2021-02-12T17:46:16","date_gmt":"2021-02-12T17:46:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mindspa.me\/?p=5193"},"modified":"2021-02-12T17:46:16","modified_gmt":"2021-02-12T17:46:16","slug":"i-want-to-fall-in-love-but-i-have-a-husband","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/i-want-to-fall-in-love-but-i-have-a-husband\/","title":{"rendered":"I want to fall in love, but I have a husband."},"content":{"rendered":"
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I am married, but after childbirth, family relations have become strained and not as they used to be, with more frequent quarrels and scandals. On one hand, my husband and I want to preserve our marriage, and now the situation has stabilized, the quarrels have stopped. On the other hand, I want very much to relive the feeling of love. But I can’t do that with my husband. Does this mean that our relationship is over and I have to look for someone else? Bernice.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n

What is happening in Bernice\u2019s family?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The birth of a child brings great happiness and joy, but at the same time a young family faces fatigue, lack of sleep, and new difficulties in which they must learn to be not only a husband and wife, but also a mother and father.   <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And, apparently, despite the difficulties, Bernice and her husband managed to cope, and the situation has leveled off. They began to behave like adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Now about the desire to fall in love. It\u2019s similar to the desire to feel carefree, lightweight, and is similar to the «butterfly<\/strong>\u201d feeling in your stomach. And it, this desire, is very understandable in such realities. For it is a counterbalance to maturity, to responsibility, and to the word «must<\/strong>«.<\/p>\n\n\n

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The desire in itself does not mean that the relationship is over. Otherwise, Bernice would not have put so much effort into working on them. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

But the fact that our heroine really wants them (the relationship) to be a little more joyful and easier is a signal that maybe there\u2019s just not enough attention, flirting, or feeling loved and desired \u2013 all this implying love. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

In some cases, they may go back to the existing relationship. Of course, this will require an effort from both sides, but this is the reality \u2013 a relationship can go through ups and downs. <\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I am married, but after childbirth, family relations have become strained and not as they used to be, with more frequent quarrels and scandals. On one hand, my husband and I want to preserve our marriage, and now the situation has stabilized, the quarrels have stopped. On the other hand, I want very much to… Read More »I want to fall in love, but I have a husband.<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5194,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,5],"tags":[163,543,809,836,883,1000],"class_list":["post-5193","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eng","category-mental-health","tag-betrayal","tag-family","tag-lover","tag-marriage","tag-mindspa","tag-passion"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5193","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5193"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5193\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5194"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5193"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5193"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5193"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}