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Probably, no other topic except sex is filled with so many misconceptions and anxieties. We prepared answers to the 10 most frequent questions and we would like to share them with you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

  1. I don\u2019t want my man. Does it mean that I no longer love him?<\/strong><\/li><\/ol>\n\n\n\n

    Both yes and no. If you feel repulsion at the physical level \u2013 then probably yes. If something happened (a conflict, or temporary drifting apart) and your desire disappeared \u2013 this is normal. Your libido is fluid and there is a good chance that it will come back. However, if you absolutely don\u2019t want your man but want someone else, it may be a signal that you are trying to leave your current relationship and your new desire is \u201chelping\u201d you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    2. My man doesn\u2019t want me. Does it mean that our relationship is over?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    The answer is similar to the previous one. It is important to know whether your man doesn\u2019t want you specifically or lost interest in sex in general? And how long this lack of desire has been going on? Is it a stress reaction? Is it \u201cI don\u2019t want sex and do as you please\u201d or \u201cI don\u2019t want sex and will solve this problem\u201d? In reality, the relationship ends only when both people make this decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    3. Is it true that you need to have sex to remain healthy?\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    When we are having sex, we truly feel good, both psychically and emotionally. <\/strong>Because good sexual life has a positive effect on everything, including self-esteem. But the key reason is not physical satisfaction (climax) \u2013 it is getting pleasure and joy from interacting with your partner. Nobody died from the lack of sex. But it is better if you have it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

    4. I always experience pain during sex. What to do?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

    If it is not something you both agreed on (your partner is hurting you according to your agreed-upon rules during sexual games), it is important to understand what kind of pain it is and what is causing it. Here are some most common reasons:<\/p>\n\n\n\n