{"id":8253,"date":"2021-09-07T14:34:23","date_gmt":"2021-09-07T14:34:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mindspa.me\/?p=8253"},"modified":"2021-09-07T14:34:23","modified_gmt":"2021-09-07T14:34:23","slug":"mens-fears","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/mens-fears\/","title":{"rendered":"Men\u2019s top 5 fears"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"notice\"><small><b>Mindspa is the #1 self-therapy app for your mental wellbeing. Safe, effective and easy to use!<\/b> <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/mindspa\" rel=\"noopener\"><u>Download it here<\/u><\/a><\/small><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Nuovo-progetto-1-3.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-8251\" width=\"251\" height=\"169\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Nuovo-progetto-1-3.jpg 980w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Nuovo-progetto-1-3-600x404.jpg 600w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Nuovo-progetto-1-3-64x43.jpg 64w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Nuovo-progetto-1-3-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Nuovo-progetto-1-3-768x517.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Nuovo-progetto-1-3-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/Nuovo-progetto-1-3-500x337.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 251px) 100vw, 251px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>During counseling sessions, women often say that men have it easy. We, women, have a lot of anxieties and fears, and they (bast\u2026) only have fun! And &#8212; they don\u2019t have periods. We will agree with the last point, but the issue of anxieties and fears is not that straightforward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The thing is that in their principle, men\u2019s fears are very similar to women\u2019s, even if it is hard to believe. They may have a slightly different focus, but the essence is the same. Our experience of working with men, who also come to psychologists for help, allows us to state this quite confidently.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So, what are men afraid of? Here is the list of the most frequent fears:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>1. \u2026 of getting old and not being attractive.<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Yes \u2013 this is not just \u201cwomen\u2019s\u201d topic. The upcoming new anniversary is making men as anxious as women. Gray hair, loss of strength in muscles, wrinkles make men think that attractiveness is fading away, and &#8230; I&#8217;m not the &#171;wow&#187; I was 10 years ago. It is during this period that men often have young girlfriends, as if proving to themselves that they win the fight with age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Scott is studying his reflection in the mirror. Today he turned 50. 50! There is a tummy showing, he already has more gray hair than his natural dark hair&#8230; The time is not far off when a beautiful woman will no longer look in his direction&#8230; And what lies ahead? Old age and weakness? Ehhh&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>2. \u2026 to fuck up in bed.<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Male strength, the ability to be good in bed is one of the most important pillars on which male self-esteem is built. If something goes wrong in this area, there is a fear of &#171;screwing up&#187;, which greatly affects the erection and confidence of a man in his capabilities in principle. And not only real health problems in the intimate sphere, but also the indelicacy of the partner, excessive fixation on this topic, and one-time sexual failures can make men worry about their solvency in bed. Women are afraid to be unattractive, not to be liked, and men &#8212; to look like bad lovers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Under the influence of a prolonged stress period, Jay experienced an embarrassing moment in bed with a new girlfriend. She said something like \u201cYeah\u2026 It would be better if we haven\u2019t tried this. Maybe, you need to take some pills?\u201d And Jay lost his peace of mind. Now, he is afraid of sex, afraid that things will not work out. And problems did start happening since fear and anxiety block literally everything in our bodies.<\/p>\n\n\n<div align=\"center\">\n<div class=\"alt-notice\" align=\"center\"><b><font color=\"white\">UNLOCKING MENTAL WELLBEING<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Self-therapy can be an essential tool for personal growth and self-improvement.<br \/>Browse through our <a href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/courses\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><u>courses<\/u><\/a> and see the positive changes they can bring to your life.<\/p>\n<p>You are not sure where to begin?<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<p class=\"product woocommerce add_to_cart_inline example-cart-button\" style=\"border: 0px;\"><a class=\"button product_type_simple add_to_cart_button ajax_add_to_cart\" href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/psy-tests\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">TAKE A FREE TEST<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"buttons\" style=\"border: 0px;\"><a class=\"button product_type_simple add_to_cart_button ajax_add_to_cart\" href=\"https:\/\/mindspa.typeform.com\/to\/za9nGe8T\" rel=\"nofollow\"><small><u>or get a free consultation<\/u><\/small><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>3. \u2026 of not being accomplished professionally.<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Here, we can add the fear of not earning enough and not being able to support the family. If this area is not stable, a man may literally lose the ability to enjoy life: to be happy, to have sexual desires, and to want anything at all. Women, by the way, often don\u2019t understand this fixation on work. They become upset thinking that it is because of them that their partners\u2019 mood is going south\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>During the last six months, Gregory have been having problems at work. His start-up, where he invested all he had, is at the brink of bankruptcy because of the pandemic. He is extremely worried that he will not be able to support his wife and will need to ask his parents for money. The financial independence that he worked so hard to build is melting like a morning fog. And his wife, Barbara, is getting upset because he is not attentive and \u201cfixated\u201d on his work. \u201cIt is only a job!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>4. \u2026 to show feelings.<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Oh, we can write treatises about that. \u201cBoys don\u2019t cry\u201d &#8212; this is taught to kids from the kindergarten. And now, grown-up boys try in every possible way not to show their emotions: to restrain their joy, not to show frustration and even more so \u2013 tears. After all, this means \u201cto be weak\u201d. They also have a hard time with other people&#8217;s emotions &#8212; it is not clear what to do with them and how to behave.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nobody has ever seen Yu-ting upset. No matter what happens \u2013 he is always composed and not a muscle on his face betrays the real emotions he is feeling. When he was little, his father used to call him a \u201cwhining baby\u201d any time he showed his feelings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><strong>5. \u2026 of being \u201cused\u201d.<\/strong><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>And again, this fear is similar to women\u2019s fear. What if I am simply convenient for my partner? What if they only need my money\/house\/status? The fear of not being loved can literally paralyze a person (regardless of gender), especially if there is a history of traumatic experience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Nathalie and Kegan have been keeping a distance from each other for a long time. They both were afraid. Nathalie\u2019s ex was a gigolo and has been sucking money out of her non-stop. And Kegan was worried that she does not need him, but his beautiful house and financial stability. They have spent two years going round and round, looking at each other \u2013 trying to notice every little \u201cconfirmation\u201d of their suspicions.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are not that different, friends. Even though they say \u201cmen are from Mars, women are from Venus\u201d, both genders are equally vulnerable. And we are afraid of very similar things\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/br><div align=\"center\"><p style=\"color:#3F89C4\"><b>Follow us on social media \ud83d\udc47<\/b><\/p><\/div><div class=\"elfsight-app-c98e7929-70fd-422f-848b-3e0a5f4c858b\" data-elfsight-app-lazy><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>During counseling sessions, women often say that men have it easy. We, women, have a lot of anxieties and fears, and they (bast\u2026) only have fun! And &#8212; they don\u2019t have periods. We will agree with the last point, but the issue of anxieties and fears is not that straightforward. 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