{"id":934406,"date":"2023-08-06T21:58:43","date_gmt":"2023-08-06T21:58:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindspa.me\/?p=934406"},"modified":"2023-08-06T21:58:45","modified_gmt":"2023-08-06T21:58:45","slug":"unrealistic-demands-vs-realistic-requests-in-a-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/unrealistic-demands-vs-realistic-requests-in-a-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"Unrealistic Demands VS Realistic Requests (in a relationship)\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"
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How do you know what are adequate requests, and what are unrealistic expectations? Let\u2019s analyze it with simple examples. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2718 Unrealistic demand: I want a perfect relationship! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2713 Adequate request: I want a living relationship and a mutual willingness to deal with both the good and the bad. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2718 Unrealistic demand: I want a completely safe relationship. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2713 Adequate request: I understand that relationships are always a risk, so I want to learn how to deal with issues that may come along the way. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2718 Unrealistic demand: I want to meet a person who is perfect for me. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2713 Adequate request: I want to learn to see different things in people, to get closer, to get to know them, to be more flexible in my requirements.<\/p>\n\n\n

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\u2718 Unrealistic demand: I want a relationship with guarantees. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2713 Adequate request: I want to accept the fact that there are no guarantees for anything in this life. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2718 Unrealistic demand: I don\u2019t want to need anyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2713 Adequate request: I want to be able to manage my need for intimacy, not to deny myself the joy of relationship, but also not to lose myself in another person. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

The unrealistic demands that we have mentioned often indicate the avoidant attachment style because they allow you to run away from relationships for as long as you want without admitting it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you recognize yourself in the given examples of unrealistic demands, then it\u2019s a good reason to analyze your attachment style.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/br>

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How do you know what are adequate requests, and what are unrealistic expectations? Let\u2019s analyze it with simple examples.  \u2718 Unrealistic demand: I want a perfect relationship!  \u2713 Adequate request: I want a living relationship and a mutual willingness to deal with both the good and the bad.  \u2718 Unrealistic demand: I want a completely… Read More »Unrealistic Demands VS Realistic Requests (in a relationship)\u00a0<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":934404,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[2534,554,648,682,883,1419,1465],"class_list":["post-934406","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eng","tag-break","tag-feelings","tag-happiness","tag-humor","tag-mindspa","tag-thoughts","tag-trust"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/934406","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=934406"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/934406\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/934404"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=934406"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=934406"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=934406"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}