{"id":10987,"date":"2022-07-14T13:17:14","date_gmt":"2022-07-14T13:17:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mindspa.me\/?p=10987"},"modified":"2022-07-14T13:17:14","modified_gmt":"2022-07-14T13:17:14","slug":"feeling-guilty-about-being-well","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/feeling-guilty-about-being-well\/","title":{"rendered":"Feeling guilty about being well"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Clients often ask psychologists about their feeling of guilt. However, now most often we hear about a special form of guilt \u2013 the guilt for one’s own well-being.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI\u2019m doing well, but my friends and family have lost their homes. How can I be buying a new sofa for my apartment knowing this?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI have no right to feel joy when such a misfortune happens to other people.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cHow can I live if everything is fine with me, but someone\u2019s houses were destroyed and loved ones died?\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When there is a lot of fear, anxiety, anger, and horrific suffering around the world — we seem to receive a signal that our feelings are somehow \u201cwrong\u201d if they do not match what is \u201csocially acceptable\u201d to feel at times like this. If you go about your \u201clife as usual\u201d \u2013 you seem like an insensitive monster.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The moral judgment is turned on, and it seems that \u201cit is immoral now to feel joy, buy new clothes, eat ice cream, or watch movies.\u201d After all, not everyone can afford it now.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

In psychology, there is a term «survivor’s guilt» — when a person feels guilty for surviving a car accident, military operations, or a natural catastrophe. Some people didn’t survive. Now a huge number of people are experiencing a similar feeling of guilt. Some left the country where it is now unsafe and think about those who stayed. Some view the terrible events from the outside and curl into a ball, thinking that they do not have the right to live.<\/p>\n\n\n

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If you know this feeling, you need to regularly repeat the following to yourself:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. These events ARE NOT MY FAULT.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. I HAVE THE RIGHT to empathize with others without putting my life on hold.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. I will not make ANYONE better if I make my life miserable — it does not help.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT to make me feel guilty for something I’m not guilty of.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. My life is ALSO VALUABLE.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are not able to cope with guilt, it is important to talk about it with a specialist, or with a person who can listen without judging. It is important not to leave the guilt inside: you need to talk through it and let it out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Clients often ask psychologists about their feeling of guilt. However, now most often we hear about a special form of guilt \u2013 the guilt for one’s own well-being. \u201cI\u2019m doing well, but my friends and family have lost their homes. How can I be buying a new sofa for my apartment knowing this?\u201d \u201cI have… Leer m\u00e1s »Feeling guilty about being well<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":10986,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[28,94,192,591,883,929,1367,1522],"class_list":["post-10987","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eng","tag-ache","tag-anger","tag-calm","tag-friends","tag-mindspa","tag-nervous","tag-suffering","tag-welfare"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10987","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10987"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10987\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10986"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10987"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10987"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10987"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}