{"id":4946,"date":"2021-01-04T16:32:11","date_gmt":"2021-01-04T16:32:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mindspa.me\/?p=4946"},"modified":"2021-01-04T16:32:11","modified_gmt":"2021-01-04T16:32:11","slug":"criticism-or-rudeness","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/criticism-or-rudeness\/","title":{"rendered":"Criticism or rudeness?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/maleducazione-48.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-4947\" width=\"192\" height=\"128\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/maleducazione-48.jpg 600w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/maleducazione-48-64x43.jpg 64w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/maleducazione-48-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/maleducazione-48-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/01\/maleducazione-48-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 192px) 100vw, 192px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Often, really often, toxic, rude, ill-mannered&nbsp; people cover up their rudeness, calling it &#171;criticism&#187;. They&#8217;ll also shame you, they say, you really can\u2019t stand the criticism? Boo,shame on you!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it turns out that &#171;boo&#187; is actually the one who attacks you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let&#8217;s find out what is adequate criticism and what are inadequate, aggressive quibbles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Your work, actions, words, deed are criticized.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>The report contains incorrect dates, an unsuccessful color scheme was selected, and an error in the word was made.<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Inadequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Criticism is exposed to your personality as a whole.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>Bungler, bad parent, mediocrity.<\/em>                                                                                                        <\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Happens in private: in a personal conversation, a letter, a message. No witnesses and no behind closed doors.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Inadequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>It happens for a show, making your mistakes public.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>It\u2019s expressed in a calm tone, with respectful intonation, using normative vocabulary.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>Your project pays little attention to the security, and\u00a0 this is very important.<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Inadequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Expressed in an aggressive or mocking tone, in raised tones, \u00a0using offensive, insulting words and expressions.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>The whole project is a joke! With this kind of security, you&#8217;re going to have a deadline!<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>The critic is well versed in this \u00a0issue, has experience and knowledge on the topic under discussion.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>Articles criticize a philologist or journalist, a doctor&#8217;s error &#8212; a doctor of a higher category, scientific research &#8212; a scientist.<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n<div align=\"center\">\n<div class=\"alt-notice\" align=\"center\"><b><font color=\"white\">UNLOCKING MENTAL WELLBEING<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Self-therapy can be an essential tool for personal growth and self-improvement.<br \/>Browse through our <a href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/courses\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><u>courses<\/u><\/a> and see the positive changes they can bring to your life.<\/p>\n<p>You are not sure where to begin?<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<p class=\"product woocommerce add_to_cart_inline example-cart-button\" style=\"border: 0px;\"><a class=\"button product_type_simple add_to_cart_button ajax_add_to_cart\" href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/psy-tests\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">TAKE A FREE TEST<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"buttons\" style=\"border: 0px;\"><a class=\"button product_type_simple add_to_cart_button ajax_add_to_cart\" href=\"https:\/\/mindspa.typeform.com\/to\/za9nGe8T\" rel=\"nofollow\"><small><u>or get a free consultation<\/u><\/small><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Inadequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Statements from incompetent and &#171;random&#187; people in this issue.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>It\u2019s worth questioning the adequacy of criticism about manicure with a painting from a man with dirty, bitten nails.<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>The critic points clearly out errors or blunders, confirming his opinion with examples.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>The choice of flax for this dress is unsuccessful, flax is a heavy material, it\u2019s better suited for a trouser suit.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Inadequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>The critic doesn\u2019t explain his point of view, speaks vaguely, without explaining his opinion.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>Well, that&#8217;s no good! I don&#8217;t like this dress, it&#8217;s bad!<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Noting the shortcomings, the critic offers options to correct them, helps with advice.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>The design of this room is gloomy, you need bright accents: pillows, vases, tablecloths.<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Inadequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Criticism is presented as a &#171;final diagnosis&#187; where nothing can be corrected and remade.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>The design is hopelessly flawed, it can be &#171;in the furnace&#187;, start over<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>The critic admits that there may be other ways of evaluation, listens to the opinions of opponents, without claiming to be omniscient.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>It\u2019s better to choose an operation, although representatives of other medical schools would offer medical treatment.<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Inadequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>The critic speaks as if his point of view is the only correct one, considering other views fundamentally wrong.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>Just surgery! What do they know about their pills?<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>The critic evaluates the essential points, rather than the whole work, explaining what his opinion is based on.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>You have incorrect numbers at the top of the table, so the total ones are wrong.<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Inadequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Criticism is completely irrelevant, the critic points out unimportant details, and introduces inappropriate evaluation criteria.\u00a0<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>The whole table is wrong, because the color and font have\u00a0 badly chosen!<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Adequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Criticism implies dialogue, you are given an opportunity to express your point of view, to say the words of justification.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>I agree that the bouquets are not original, but many of the flowers in the warehouse were lost due to temperature changes.<\/em><\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Inadequate criticism<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>The critic does not give you the right to speak out, believing that you have no right to make a mistake or that your opinion does not make sense.\u00a0<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00a0<strong>I don&#8217;t want to hear any excuses! There are no&#187; circumstances&#187;, there are incompetent people!<\/strong><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Often, really often, toxic, rude, ill-mannered&nbsp; people cover up their rudeness, calling it &#171;criticism&#187;. They&#8217;ll also shame you, they say, you really can\u2019t stand the criticism? Boo,shame on you! But it turns out that &#171;boo&#187; is actually the one who attacks you. Let&#8217;s find out what is adequate criticism and what are inadequate, aggressive quibbles.&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/criticism-or-rudeness\/\" class=\"\" rel=\"bookmark\">Leer m\u00e1s &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Criticism or rudeness?<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":4947,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,5],"tags":[354,550,820,883,1226,1293,1412],"class_list":["post-4946","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eng","category-mental-health","tag-criticisms","tag-fear","tag-make-a-mistake","tag-mindspa","tag-rudeness","tag-shame-on-you","tag-terror"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4946","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4946"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4946\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4947"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4946"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4946"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4946"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}