{"id":5905,"date":"2021-07-12T00:50:35","date_gmt":"2021-07-12T00:50:35","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mindspa.me\/?p=5905"},"modified":"2021-07-12T00:50:35","modified_gmt":"2021-07-12T00:50:35","slug":"why-dont-i-trust-anyone","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/why-dont-i-trust-anyone\/","title":{"rendered":"Why don\u2019t I trust anyone?"},"content":{"rendered":"
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So, how can we notice that the process of trusting is deformed or distorted? Let\u2019s consider the following real-life examples.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Even if everything is going well in Elizabeth\u2019s life, she thinks that this cannot last long. The world is going to throw some monkey wrench into her life: her friend may betray her, her boyfriend too, she may get fired\u2026 What else to expect in a world where everyone for themselves? The most important thing is not to let your guard down.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Natalie is very certain that one should not open up to people. The safest way \u2013 is not to show your emotions and not to get close to people. People may betray, humiliate, insult, or use you. Has something like this happened to Natalie? No. But she is still fairly certain on some subconscious level that something like this is likely to happen.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Time and again, Tony falls in love with unavailable women. With women who already have a relationship or are married, or with those who live in a different country. He starts relationships that for obvious reasons soon become unsatisfactory. Time and again, he \u201clearns\u201d that you shouldn\u2019t trust anybody. All the women move on with their lives after \u201cgiving\u201d him some hope\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Angela trusts everyone. To her, friends are all people whom she met just yesterday. She doesn\u2019t quite understand how trust works since she\u2019s never had a relationship based on solid and justified trust. Therefore, she always makes the same mistake by getting too close to people too quickly.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Evan is very suspicious of people. In everyone\u2019s actions, he sees warning signs that everything is bad and one should never trust this person. If the woman he just met is being late \u2013 that means she is hiding something. If she doesn\u2019t pick up right away or answers his message after some time \u2013 she is obviously rejecting him. If his girlfriend doesn\u2019t want to have sex today, that\u2019s it \u2013 the relationship is over, she doesn\u2019t want him anymore. And then Evan starts checking his girlfriend\u2019s phone and monitoring her behavior. Surely, he finds \u201cobvious\u201d signs supporting his suspicions. <\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

All these people have certain problems with trust. If they leave things as they are \u2013 there is a risk that they will not be able to build a normal relationship. This doesn\u2019t apply just to romantic relationships, but to relationships of any kind. All our communications and our approach to the world are built on trust. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

It is not hard to see that a person has problems with trust if you know where to look.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are some signs:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n