{"id":8187,"date":"2021-09-03T15:55:46","date_gmt":"2021-09-03T15:55:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mindspa.me\/?p=8187"},"modified":"2021-09-03T15:55:46","modified_gmt":"2021-09-03T15:55:46","slug":"i-feel-awkward-taking-money-for-my-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/i-feel-awkward-taking-money-for-my-work\/","title":{"rendered":"I feel awkward taking money for my work"},"content":{"rendered":"
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If this issue is familiar to you, rest assured that you are not alone. Many people are \u201cin the same boat\u201d with you and feel embarrassed and even ashamed to set a price for their work and take money for it. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

So, what is the matter? It seems that everything is logical: if we are getting a service, we pay for it. And as a rule, this does not cause any internal resistance. But as soon as it concerns us ourselves, something changes. What is it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doubt 1. Is this exchange fair? What if I am not worth this much?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

We exchange our services for money. If deep inside you are certain that your service is not worth this much money \u2013 you are bound to feel awkward.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Jennifer recently became an eyebrow technician. Even before she finished her training, she used to do eyebrows for all her girlfriends and they were lining up for her services, but it is hard for her to take money for her work. She only recently got certification!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you do not value your time, knowledge, skills, and competencies it will always be hard for you to set a proper price for your work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Benjamin knows very well the electric system of cars. He loves tinkering with cars! For as long as he can remember, he has always been fixing them. New clients find him all the time through the word of mouth. But he is not able to set a price for his work. He just waves his hand \u2013 \u201cpay what you can\u2026\u201d He feels uncomfortable charging money for something that he loves to do.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Benjamin is hindered by another conviction: if I like what I do, how can I charge money for it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you are not confident in the quality of your services and your professionalism, you will certainly devalue your services!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here is a trap: everything is subjective and there are no clear criteria. On the other hand, there is a possibility that even 5 years after receiving your diploma, you will still think that you are not \u201cquite there yet\u201d professionally.<\/p>\n\n\n

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Doubt 2. What if this is too expensive for the client?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ariyana is a wonderful speech therapist. She helps people with speech disorders and specializes in adults. How many cases of articulation disorders and even stuttering she helped to correct! And she always continues learning \u2013 just recently she traveled to East Coast to take a well-known intensive training course. Her consultation costs $200, but she feels extremely awkward asking for money for her qualified work. It is so expensive for the clients\u2026 And they already need help \u2013 how can I rip them off like that?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Making decisions for another person \u2013 this sounds all too familiar\u2026 But this is not how it works, friends. If you come to a store and see shoes for $200 but you only have $100 for this purchase, you will take the shoes that fit your budget. You are not going to try to convince the salesperson to sell you $200 shoes for half the price. These are the rules. The same applies to services. If the services of a certain specialist are too expensive for you it does not mean that they should lower their price. There are many services in different price categories! Ariyana worked very hard to be a qualified specialist \u2013 she spent a lot of money and time on training. She is not ripping anyone off \u2013 everyone has a choice. She is not addressing an urgent life-and-death situation, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Besides, the notion of \u201ca lot of money\u201d is quite subjective. You will not be able to match everyone\u2019s expectations. What may be too expensive for one person, can be quite acceptable to another.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doubt 3. Beliefs about money<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

Oh, there may be a great multitude of them!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u26ac Charging money for services is bad.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u26ac You need to work because you enjoy your profession, not for money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u26ac Only crooks have a lot of money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u26ac You need to help people at no charge.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Do you feel the aftertaste of your parents\u2019 admonitions? You should work specifically on beliefs about money. They may hinder your success a great deal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Doubt 4. Relying on the opinion of others<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

What if they think badly of me if I charge the real price for my services? They will think (oh, no!) that I am too material. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you feel embarrassed charging money for your work you are on a straight path to professional burnout because when the give-and-take balance is broken, it is inevitable. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

And the main thing. People feel awkward taking money for their work (setting a price for it) when they have problems with realizing their boundaries and the legitimacy of their feelings, values, \u200b\u200band needs. For some reason, your desires\/needs are much less important to you than the desires\/needs of other people. It is worth asking yourself the question: why is this so?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If the fear\/shame\/embarrassment to take money is present in your life, first you need to look for the reason. It is better to do this together with a psychologist, but these questions can also help:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

— What am I really afraid of?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

— What attitudes prevent me from adequately assessing (or stating) the value of my labor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

— How will I feel working for free?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Remind yourself that every job needs to be paid. Continue to develop professionally, directly state the cost without making excuses for it, collect feedback on your work (this helps to pacify your own «impostor syndrome»), and gain experience. Only practice relieves fear, awkwardness, and embarrassment when talking about money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/br>

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If this issue is familiar to you, rest assured that you are not alone. Many people are \u201cin the same boat\u201d with you and feel embarrassed and even ashamed to set a price for their work and take money for it.  So, what is the matter? It seems that everything is logical: if we are… Leer m\u00e1s »I feel awkward taking money for my work<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":8185,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,5],"tags":[451,883,895,1091,1292,1359,1533],"class_list":["post-8187","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eng","category-mental-health","tag-doubts","tag-mindspa","tag-money","tag-problems","tag-shame","tag-stress","tag-work"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8187","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8187"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8187\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/8185"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8187"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8187"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/es\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8187"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}