{"id":1003410,"date":"2026-01-13T19:06:08","date_gmt":"2026-01-13T16:06:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindspa.me\/?p=1003410"},"modified":"2026-01-13T19:06:10","modified_gmt":"2026-01-13T16:06:10","slug":"why-good-girls-stay-poor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/why-good-girls-stay-poor\/","title":{"rendered":"Why \u2018good girls\u2019 stay poor"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Let’s take a look at how your income can be related to the \u2018good girl\u2019 syndrome that has become so widespread nowadays. But first, a few words about what the \u2018good girl\u2019 syndrome actually means. It is a behavior strategy that suggests that a person strives to please everyone, always make a good impression, meet everybody\u2019s expectations, serve, be committed and be prepared for any possible situation. \u2018Good girls\u2019 can never say \u2018no\u2019, they are always friendly and modest. They are also anxious, they are afraid of being judged, they never want to disappoint or offend anyone. Other people\u2019s happiness is a priority for a \u2018good girl\u2019.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

By the way, there can also be \u2018good boys\u2019. This behavior strategy is not gender-related.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So why do \u2018good girls\u2019 often stay poor?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. A \u2018good girl\u2019 finds it hard to charge money for her work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

No, this does not mean that she doesn\u2019t value herself. However, by charging and receiving a decent payment, a \u2018good girl\u2019 will lose her tool for manipulation. When you charge less for your work than its actual value or refuse to take payment at all, you feel like you have power over the other person: now they owe you something. And this is exactly the goal of this mind game.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. A \u2018good girl\u2019 doesn\u2019t know how to take care of herself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Instead, she chooses to take care of others so that they take care of her in turn. As a result, the well-being of this \u2018good girl\u2019 depends on anyone else, but not on herself. That\u2019s why these people often blame their circumstances, bad luck, or a curse for their low income… anyone but themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. A \u2018good girl\u2019 wants to meet other people’s expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A \u2018good girl\u2019 always waits. She waits for others to tell her how much they are willing to pay. She waits for her boss to offer her a pay rise. She waits that they will notice her effort and it will be rewarded. But she struggles to ask for these things for herself because she\u2019s afraid that it\u2019s not what the other person wants.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. A \u2018good girl\u2019 tries too hard.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

She believes that if she works extra hard, if she does everything and more, if she puts all of herself into work, she will surely be rewarded. But the \u2018good girl\u2019 forgets to discuss the reward in advance. And if you don\u2019t appreciate yourself, others won\u2019t do it either.<\/p>\n\n\n

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5. A \u2018good girl\u2019 often suppresses anger.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

As a child, she was told that good people never get angry, that only bad people and evil witches can be angry, and that it’s a dangerous emotion. But in reality, suppressed anger wastes the energy that you need to achieve good income, and it prevents you from expressing yourself to the full extent. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2018Good girls\u2019 often say \u201cMoney can\u2019t buy happiness\u201d. That\u2019s true, money doesn\u2019t bring happiness, but money allows you to satisfy your basic needs, and therefore gives you strength and energy to take care of your happiness. Money allows you to go up from \u2018survival\u2019 level to \u2018enjoying your life\u2019 level.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Money also gives you the opportunity to try many different things, and this is the only way to find out what truly makes you happy. Money opens up doors; behind these doors you\u2019ll find growth, pleasure, joys, hobbies, and new people. When you have money, you generally feel calmer, more relaxed and secure, which is why it is so important to work on your attitudes towards money.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/br>

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Let’s take a look at how your income can be related to the \u2018good girl\u2019 syndrome that has become so widespread nowadays. But first, a few words about what the \u2018good girl\u2019 syndrome actually means. It is a behavior strategy that suggests that a person strives to please everyone, always make a good impression, meet… Leggi tutto »Why \u2018good girls\u2019 stay poor<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":1003408,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"off","neve_meta_content_width":70,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[486,550,628,804,883,1074,1523],"class_list":["post-1003410","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eng","tag-emotions","tag-fear","tag-girls","tag-loneliness","tag-mindspa","tag-poverty","tag-well-being"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1003410","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1003410"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1003410\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1003412,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1003410\/revisions\/1003412"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1003408"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1003410"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1003410"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1003410"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}