{"id":5459,"date":"2021-04-07T08:53:01","date_gmt":"2021-04-07T08:53:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.mindspa.me\/?p=5459"},"modified":"2021-04-07T08:53:01","modified_gmt":"2021-04-07T08:53:01","slug":"codependent-relationships-with-work","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/codependent-relationships-with-work\/","title":{"rendered":"Codependent relationships\u2026 with work"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/relazioni168.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5460\" width=\"175\" height=\"116\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/relazioni168.jpg 600w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/relazioni168-64x43.jpg 64w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/relazioni168-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/relazioni168-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/relazioni168-500x333.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 175px) 100vw, 175px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Codependent relationships do not necessarily exist only in the context of romantic connections. Codependency is a personal trait. Therefore, all the communications created by the person will be permeated by one or the other codependent scenario.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>This is what it looks like in the sphere of employment:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>You feel discomfort in your career. You are not satisfied with your job, you feel bad, you are not able to realize your potential. But you don\u2019t leave. You are hoping that things will work out somehow by themselves. Life will solve everything and present new opportunities for you.&nbsp;<br><\/li><li>You are trying too hard. You are making an effort to prove yourself, to show that you are unique and irreplaceable. But, at the same time, you don\u2019t know what specifically you expect in return \u2013 you either don\u2019t know, or you don\u2019t tell your employer about it.&nbsp;<br><\/li><li>You think that they don\u2019t appreciate you. You often feel resentful about it.&nbsp;<br><\/li><li>Your boss may violate your boundaries and the chain of command. They may be rude, mocking you, making inappropriate comments, reprimanding you in front of everyone, and going through your personal things. And you tolerate all of this \u2013 how can you object?&nbsp;<br><\/li><li>You are waiting for your bosses to guess that you would like a promotion or to change a position. You are following a rule: do not ask for anything, they will come and make an offer themselves.&nbsp;<br><\/li><li>You feel jealous of other employees. You even feel jealous of projects and achievements (why did she succeed but not me).&nbsp;<br><\/li><li>You job negatively affects your other areas of life \u2013 they simply don\u2019t exist. All your time is consumed by work.&nbsp;<br><\/li><li>You sacrifice yourself, your interests, your values, and your plans for the sake of work. And you don\u2019t do it just every now and then &#8212; you do it constantly.&nbsp;<br><\/li><li>In your relationship with your work there are two distinct phases: \u201ceverything is good\u201d and \u201ceverything is bad\u201d.&nbsp;<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>If you recognize yourself in at least two of the items above, you need to reconsider your values and priorities. If you want things to change for the better, of course.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Codependency can be dealt with \u2013 remember this.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n<div align=\"center\">\n<div class=\"alt-notice\" align=\"center\"><b><font color=\"white\">UNLOCKING MENTAL WELLBEING<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Self-therapy can be an essential tool for personal growth and self-improvement.<br \/>Browse through our <a href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/courses\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><u>courses<\/u><\/a> and see the positive changes they can bring to your life.<\/p>\n<p>You are not sure where to begin?<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<p class=\"product woocommerce add_to_cart_inline example-cart-button\" style=\"border: 0px;\"><a class=\"button product_type_simple add_to_cart_button ajax_add_to_cart\" href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/psy-tests\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">TAKE A FREE TEST<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"buttons\" style=\"border: 0px;\"><a class=\"button product_type_simple add_to_cart_button ajax_add_to_cart\" href=\"https:\/\/mindspa.typeform.com\/to\/za9nGe8T\" rel=\"nofollow\"><small><u>or get a free consultation<\/u><\/small><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Codependent relationships do not necessarily exist only in the context of romantic connections. Codependency is a personal trait. Therefore, all the communications created by the person will be permeated by one or the other codependent scenario.&nbsp; This is what it looks like in the sphere of employment:&nbsp; You feel discomfort in your career. You are&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/codependent-relationships-with-work\/\" class=\"\" rel=\"bookmark\">Leggi tutto &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">Codependent relationships\u2026 with work<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5460,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[247,760,808,883,1095,1169,1534],"class_list":["post-5459","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-mental-health","tag-codependent","tag-jealousy","tag-love","tag-mindspa","tag-profession","tag-relationship","tag-work-out"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5459","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5459"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5459\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5460"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5459"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5459"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5459"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}