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Safe, effective and easy to use!<\/b> <a target=\"_blank\" href=\"https:\/\/onelink.to\/mindspa\" rel=\"noopener\"><u>Download it here<\/u><\/a><\/small><\/div>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"alignleft size-full is-resized\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/depressione-228.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-5980\" width=\"-2197\" height=\"-1479\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/depressione-228.jpg 980w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/depressione-228-600x404.jpg 600w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/depressione-228-64x43.jpg 64w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/depressione-228-300x202.jpg 300w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/depressione-228-768x517.jpg 768w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/depressione-228-18x12.jpg 18w, https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/depressione-228-500x337.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 980px) 100vw, 980px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>All of us have unique personality traits. Some of us are impulsive, others are shy, some are risk-takers, some tend to worry a lot, etc. Let us talk about \u201cworriers\u201d and how to behave if your loved one is an anxious person.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anxious people perceive the world as dangerous. They see it as full of threats. Under no circumstances they should let their guard down \u2013 this may turn out badly. For this very reason, they are always careful and keep everything under their vigilant control. This is how they interact with reality. In any situation, they first see risk and potential danger for themselves and their loved ones. Any uncertain situation is a source of strong anxiety. In such circumstances, they often imagine the most horrible developments and try to anticipate everything that may or may not happen and get ready for it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It is easy to see that a person who is not characterized by anxiety to such an extent will have difficulties understanding what is going on in the internal world of a person who always worries about something. But the fact that we don\u2019t understand something doesn\u2019t mean that we should wave it off as a buzzing fly.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Let\u2019s first agree on the following: personal traits are not disorders. If your loved one is an anxious person try not to act as if something is wrong with them because this is very unnerving and makes an anxious and suspicious person even more anxious and suspicious.<\/p>\n\n\n<div align=\"center\">\n<div class=\"alt-notice\" align=\"center\"><b><font color=\"white\">UNLOCKING MENTAL WELLBEING<\/font><\/b><\/p>\n<p>Self-therapy can be an essential tool for personal growth and self-improvement.<br \/>Browse through our <a href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/courses\/\" rel=\"noopener\"><u>courses<\/u><\/a> and see the positive changes they can bring to your life.<\/p>\n<p>You are not sure where to begin?<\/p>\n<div align=\"center\">\n<p class=\"product woocommerce add_to_cart_inline example-cart-button\" style=\"border: 0px;\"><a class=\"button product_type_simple add_to_cart_button ajax_add_to_cart\" href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/en\/psy-tests\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">TAKE A FREE TEST<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"buttons\" style=\"border: 0px;\"><a class=\"button product_type_simple add_to_cart_button ajax_add_to_cart\" href=\"https:\/\/mindspa.typeform.com\/to\/za9nGe8T\" rel=\"nofollow\"><small><u>or get a free consultation<\/u><\/small><\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>So, how should you behave?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Do not discount their worries with phrases like: \u201cStop making things up\u201d, \u201cDon\u2019t be silly!\u201d, and never-ever say the words \u201cCalm down\u201d.<\/li><li>Be reliable, calm, and confident. Confidence tends to be transmitted to those around you. If an anxious person feels safe with you, they will relax and calm down.<\/li><li>Help them \u201cdisassemble\u201d their worries.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Is your friend worried that they will miss their flight? But even if this does happen \u2013 it is unpleasant, but not lethal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Discuss with them the most unfavorable developments and suggest focusing on real consequences and real actions (for example, booking the next flight). It helps them to see the situation from a different, more constructive, angle.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Suggest them to see a specialist in cognitive-behavioral therapy. It works very well for anxiety and the quality of life of your loved one may improve considerably.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>If your loved one is an anxious person, the best thing you can do is not to leave them alone with their worries, but also not to fall with them into the maelstrom of imaginary dangers and endless control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<\/br><div align=\"center\"><p style=\"color:#3F89C4\"><b>Follow us on social media \ud83d\udc47<\/b><\/p><\/div><div class=\"elfsight-app-c98e7929-70fd-422f-848b-3e0a5f4c858b\" data-elfsight-app-lazy><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>All of us have unique personality traits. Some of us are impulsive, others are shy, some are risk-takers, some tend to worry a lot, etc. Let us talk about \u201cworriers\u201d and how to behave if your loved one is an anxious person. Anxious people perceive the world as dangerous. They see it as full of&hellip;&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/my-loved-one-is-an-anxious-person\/\" class=\"\" rel=\"bookmark\">Leggi tutto &raquo;<span class=\"screen-reader-text\">My loved one is an anxious person<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5980,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,5],"tags":[102,332,809,883,1168,1533],"class_list":["post-7690","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eng","category-mental-health","tag-anxiety","tag-couple","tag-lover","tag-mindspa","tag-relations","tag-work"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7690","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7690"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7690\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5980"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7690"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7690"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7690"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}