{"id":963139,"date":"2024-08-20T16:57:28","date_gmt":"2024-08-20T16:57:28","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/mindspa.me\/?p=963139"},"modified":"2024-08-20T16:57:33","modified_gmt":"2024-08-20T16:57:33","slug":"typical-behavior-of-a-codependent-person","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/typical-behavior-of-a-codependent-person\/","title":{"rendered":"Typical behavior of a codependent person\u00a0"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Codependent individuals are never satisfied with their lives and relationships. This happens because they don\u2019t have a clear idea of their responsibility; they act based on projections, and not on reality. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

We\u2019ve gathered 6 typical codependent complaints and \u201ctranslated\u201d them to help you understand what the problem actually is. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Complaint: I’m 100% invested in the relationship, I sacrifice everything I can, but my partner continues to neglect me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Translation: In fact, I am neglecting myself. And with my \u201csacrifices\u201d I convey the following message: look, I’m not important, I can easily deny myself, I don’t really need anything, your happiness and your comfort are a priority in our couple.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Complaint: Everyone around me is so ungrateful: I try my best, but they don’t care!<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Translation: Actually, I just keep forgetting one important detail: first, agree on the «fee», and then do something for someone. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

I believe that if a \u201cdeal\u201d is on in my head, then other people must also know about it , and therefore they must comply. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Complaint: I love him so much, but he doesn\u2019t return the feelings! What else does he need?! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Translation: In fact, I don\u2019t love him, I love a perfect image that I really want to obtain. I have little interest in the real living person, because I believe that he is obliged to love me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Complaint: Everything will be fine if my partner changes!<\/p>\n\n\n

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Translation: Actually, this person isn\u2019t good for me, I don’t like them. I consider them only a \u201cblank\u201d that I can shape to my liking. And if they don\u2019t want to be shaped, then they are a mean jerk. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Complaint: Everyone uses me\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Translation: In fact, I do everything I can to be useful and needed, even if it doesn\u2019t bring me anything in return. I believe that servility is a type of good and correct behavior that should be rewarded.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Complaint: Our relationship is a one-way game! <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Translation: In fact, I also get something important from this relationship. Namely: satisfaction of my unhealthy need to deserve love (I don\u2019t believe that you can love someone for nothing in return); the opportunity to always be better than my partner (I am a hardworking person, while my partner is an ungrateful pig); the opportunity to ignore my bad condition (I\u2019m always busy: I keep doing something for the relationship). <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Codependent individuals are never satisfied with their lives and relationships. This happens because they don\u2019t have a clear idea of their responsibility; they act based on projections, and not on reality.  We\u2019ve gathered 6 typical codependent complaints and \u201ctranslated\u201d them to help you understand what the problem actually is.  Complaint: I’m 100% invested in the… Leggi tutto »Typical behavior of a codependent person\u00a0<\/span><\/a><\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":966922,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"neve_meta_sidebar":"","neve_meta_container":"","neve_meta_enable_content_width":"","neve_meta_content_width":0,"neve_meta_title_alignment":"","neve_meta_author_avatar":"","neve_post_elements_order":"","neve_meta_disable_header":"","neve_meta_disable_footer":"","neve_meta_disable_title":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2],"tags":[34,102,2382,690,883,2706],"class_list":["post-963139","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-eng","tag-addiction","tag-anxiety","tag-complain","tag-illness","tag-mindspa","tag-obsession"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/963139","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=963139"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/963139\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/966922"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=963139"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=963139"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/mindspa-dev.ru\/it\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=963139"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}